You and I have had similar experiences tonight, but from the opposite ends!
I just finished a long conversation with a friend who was also following the parks panel today, and who is pretty uniformly optimistic about where the park is heading. The bulk of our conversation involved her trying to talk me off the ledge with rationales not too different from what you or
@Nick have been supplying. And I told her that I'm trying to be open to change. Because I am, truly. And there are aspects of what they're doing in the park that I unreservedly like (Ratatouille, Awesome Planet, the China and Canada shows, greening-up the spine, etc.).
But it's just not easy to come to grips with the knowledge that a place that was once
extremely special and meaningful to you isn't going to be (as) special or meaningful to you anymore.