The fact that certain things are considered "views" and others simply unchangeable conditions is the reason why I said things can be changed. I can take a gay joke, a POC one even, but it gives me a feeling that just because I'm not a straight white person (and for women, a man), I'm instantly associated to being the lesser. And maybe it's because of my sobriety, but I don't find it funny. It's not being able to take a joke because you simply have no place in this. As straight white men, you don't have to take that, so your opinion systematically doesn't hold weight. So I have to shut up because I feel hurt about something someone said? That doesn't sound like taking a joke to me. That sounds like mutely allowing people to walk over your kin with stereotypes and ridicule.
Essentially, being a minority is tough because you have to pretend to feel as though a jab at something you can't change means nothing to you when it really does. Call me oversensitive, but I'll stick with my wish to see humor without offense to minorities.
Anyway, I'm very excited about La Llorona coming this year. Also, I might be working some vendor shifts this year, so I'll let y'all know where you can find me.