Not policing anybody, just putting my own views on the show out, same as everyone else. I don't even overly love the MCU so I wouldn't even say I'm huge into the fandom at all.
I'm not shaming anybody for not liking the show, you can feel however you want to. I would just say that, yes, I think if your main problems with the show revolve around feeling manipulated because Evan Peters was cast and fans spiraled that into whatever they wanted to, Paul Bettany made a random joke before the series began (which, in hindsight I love even more now because it's absolutely hilarious) and it was a weekly series with space in between for you to think about where the story could go, I do think you're skipping over the most critical components for how to judge a film or movie. That's just my take. You can hate whatever you want for whatever reason you want to, just the same as I can criticize you for that reason. Nobody is 'right', it's just a conversational debate.
I'll take a wonderfully shot, emotionally resonate, nicely scored and amazingly acted work over one that sets up Quicksilver as being a mutant from another dimension and a cameo from Patrick Stewart saying 'You're a mutant, Wanda' just because that's what I wanted to see.