Yup. Disney resorts are at least 50% Diznoids who think it's their "happy place". That, and being kidnapped at the airport is just sooooo convenient, and really expensive in the long run. And Disney is happy to oblige them, at great cost. The parking fee SHOULD have been a huge hit to onsite hotel occupancy, but not surprisingly, the Diznoids probably think its magical in some way. And whoever thought of it, and approved it, should be much richer.
I would only stay onsite at this point if for some reason we were making a special trip with new to Disney folks or something. Oh, and had the money to waste. Our last onsite stay was when Free Dining WAS Free, and included appetizer and dessert, and tip. Even then, it just barely came out on top economically.
As you say, EMH is just stupid anyway. The best attack is what you say, go to the non EMH park. It's been that way forever, but the FP+ abomination made it worse. I find it VERY interesting that Disney has said no FP+ for SWGE. To me, that is them admitting it is a failure. But, again, it keeps Diznoids in the hotel rooms, thinking their 1 or 2 E ticket rides a day via the 60 day window is just so Magical.
I still think they are going to roll out some serious private events for SWGE. If they made those like "Free" Dining, and you had to stay on site, AND buy tickets, to be able to go to them, that would maybe get me back.
I hope I didn't just give them an evil idea.