If you want to make a "living wage," then get your butt out there and find a job that PAYS one. That may require some sacrifice (moving to an undesirable place or a new geographical location, working 2 jobs while going to school, giving up your entertainment and vacations you enjoy so much, along with other "frills"), but it's going to be worth it in the end. Oh, but you have kids to feed? Sell your kids! (Just kidding.) Kids are a very difficult obstacle to improving your life, but there's ways to work around them to provide you all with a better life. It's called sacrifice for a reason!
Sacrifice sucks, but it's worth it if you TRULY want to improve your situation. Ask any doctor...the first 15 years of going to school, completing residencies and then paying off $200K in student loan debt SUCKS. But making $250K+ per year and enjoying the perks/prestige of their career is WORTH IT. I wish
I'D become a doctor like I almost did! I became an Air Traffic Controller instead...and now I make well over $100K/yearly and enjoy a pretty damn comfortable life that I can't complain about...living in Alaska, which is an
expensive place to live!
Want a shot at the same life style I have...including working at Orlando International, Tampa International, Miami International (for some big Florida airports), or smaller facilities like Orlando Sanford, St. Petersburg, Fort Lauderdale, Sarasota, Vero Beach, etc.)? Apply here:
https://www.usajobs.gov/GetJob/ViewDetails/398409000
But wait: remember that thing about sacrifice? Yeah, it applies here too. First you have to make it through the application process (which is a formidable challenge in and of itself). Then you make $25K/yearly (or so) for several months while you go to the FAA Air Traffic Control Academy in Oklahoma City, OK for 2-4 months while you go through an intense training program. If you make it through there (which many people do), you then go to your facility (which could be anywhere in the US/Guam/Puerto Rico) and you receive on-the-job training for anywhere from 1-4 years to become a certified controller. You are often not treated well by the certified controllers while you're a "developmental" (I had a lot of Burger King apps in my work mailbox) and you are working under high-pressure/time-restricted training that not a lot of people complete. If you don't complete your training in time, you're on the street. But if--IF!!!--you do make it all the way through, you'll make anywhere from $50,000-$120,000/yearly starting wage, with annual raises (negotiated via the union contract, plus the annual government raise all federal employees get) working a job that is almost completely guaranteed to be safe and last you your entire career (unless you lose your medical certificate, get in legal trouble, etc.).
Yep, sacrifice. But SO worth it if you pull it off! ANY endeavor is when it comes to employment, so quit b*tching about making $8/hr checking ride restraints, flipping burgers, mowing grass, mopping floors or waiting tables and get your a$$ out there and improve your life!
On a side note, Seattle's minimum wage raises to $15/hr in a week. It'll be interesting to see how that works out for them.