Fair point, but what if the words are a call to violence, anger, and hate? Should a queer person capitulate homophobic statements that reduce and try to remove their humanity? As a white straight dude in America I have the status to be able to not be offended by such things, but it actually hurts others. Of course we're getting way off topic now and more into the general discussion of speech and hate speech.
I believe you are confusing inaction and being unaware as equaling not offended.
One can still address situations and words and not be offended. A queer person should not ignore homophobic statements, but likewise, they should not be
offended. Offense is a state of mind and it only brings about negative feelings.
Being white and straight means nothing. I cannot
stand the liberal mentality that being in a minority group gives you exclusive rights to feel things differently. It’s absolutely ridiculous. I have a black adopted daughter. She will have two parents, be raised in a high income, etc. A massive departure from the “average” Black person growing up in America. But because she’s black... Even though she will have no black “culture”... she is supposed to relate to an entire race? It’s healthy for her to be offended simply because of her race? Hogwash. Everyone has a legit reason to be offended.
I’m white and straight. So I guess I’m not allowed to be offended. But I have buried two of my children. I know there have been
many times I’ve had the opportunity to be offended, yet I
choose not to be.
TL
R:
1) Lack of offense does not equal inaction.
2) Being offended only hurts the offended.
3)
Anyone can be offended, it doesn’t mean they should be as it puts you in a negative state of mind.
ETA: Sorry if I come off as insensitive or anything. Maybe I’m just flat or annoyed with the level of offense everyone has in our country and just have a different mentality.
I always tell myself this:
Can you walk to a faucet, turn it on, and get clean water? Then you’re already better than the vast majority of the world. So shut up about whatever you could possibly complain about.
I enjoy that perspective as it grounds me.