1) One of my grate shames of doing my podcast is the lack of female voices, so thank you for bringing that up as we need to confront that elephant in the room.
Slightly off topic, but I know we've been meaning to have me on the Parkscope Podcast, sorry I kept putting it off. We should totally set that up soon!
2) The great comics you referenced always punched up or sideways, and while I didn't go to the Orlando comedy roast it's likely those jokes did to. Gunn's felt like punching down or not even jokes, there was no build up or release, it was just shock for shock's sake.
I am not easily offended by jokes. There's maybe 2 jokes in the history of all media I have consumed in my entire life that have ever offended me. (One from SouthPark and the other Family Guy, and yet, they still remain some of my favorite shows. I know they don't mean any harm, it was just a bad joke that got to me due to personal reasons.) I realize that not every joke is for every person, or as Joe puts it, sometimes jokes punch up, are negative in nature, and are many times directed towards a group that is in a minority, (or has historically been bullied to the point where it becomes normal to bully them.)
Here's the thing though. I don't get mad at tasteless jokes that are offensive
because they are offensive. I get mad because they're
bad jokes.
If a joke is funny. If a joke is well constructed. Then, I believe, a joke can be made about
literally anything.
The idea that nothing should be joked about can be dangerous. Just because something is no joking matter, doesn't mean it can't be part of a good joke.
In the middle ages, the only one who was allowed to speak ill of the king was the jester. Since the fool was not taken seriously, he could call those in power out for all the bad they were doing. Too much taxes for example, or "oh there King whatever goes cutting off another servant's head, that's so King whatever." People laugh, the king laughs, and it's funny because it's true. But if you're not the jester and say that, oh boy are you losing your head back then.
Jokes can be powerful tools. Jokes can help us cope with incredible sad events in our history. But also, jokes can be lazy and tweeted out in the middle of the night with little to no reflection. Offensive jokes as a whole don't upset me, poorly constructed ones do.
What was my point? Oh yea, the real crime here (or rather 8 years ago when he wrote those "jokes,") isn't how "offensive" they are. It's how bad they are as jokes. At least to me.
Being offensive for offensive's sake gives good offensive jokes a bad name.