In general, I thought this was a good movie. Before you get your pitchforks out and whatnot, I completely understand some of the criticisms of the film, and agree on some fronts. But as a film, it was extremely enjoyable to me and I am looking forward to seeing it again (hopefully multiple times).
I 100% agree with what is the main criticism of them not having a coherent plan from the start - I liked all 3 movies in this trilogy but the difference in tone between 1 & 3/ 2 is HUGE. Wasn't a huge fan of all the retconning done by JJ - the whole Palpatine as grandad in particular was very forced, in fact his whole presence was kinda forced tbh, but I digress - but in general I think it worked? And he kept some good parts from TLJ, so I can't be too mad at it.
In terms of the Rey/ Kylo kiss, and his subsequent death, I thought it was great. Honestly best part of the movie for me - the whole "Bendemption" arc in the film was the strongest part by far. Sure his death was a bit unintentionally comical, but he needed to die imo, and I spotted that Rey/ Kylo kiss from a mile away (maybe even from TFA), so it didn't feel rushed to me at least?
Giving Poe a backstory was GREAT. In fact, all of the Resistance bits were GREAT (despite the lack of Rose), and I actually really enjoyed Finn in this movie. Just wish they kept the C3PO and Chewie "shockers".
Overall, 4.5/5, in top 3 SW films for me.
I kinda rambled here but I hope it all made sense? Not sure if this is even the right place to put it but if not, please tell me where I should have it. Feel free to debate as I know most of my opinions are probably in the minority lol