I had been a hardcore Xbox guy pretty much since the Original launched. I had an original PS, but I actually remember selling it on ebay. Never got a PS2 and only my brother had a PS3 which I rarely played because I had my xbox. I don't think I realized what I was missing out on until TLOU came out in 2013 and even after that, I was in line at a Walmart to buy an Xbox One on launch night. I got a PS4 a year or so later and have fewer games on it than I do on my Xbox, but there's just some games that are wayyyy out of anything in Xbox's league on PS.
All i'm saying is I play for games, not specs. If you truly care about specs, you wouldn't even be playing console, you'd have a gaming computer. I play Xbox more with dual console games because I like the controller better, but the PS5 controller looks exactly like the Xbox One controller, so I may not even need to worry about that anymore.